The final stage of the graduate application process means both relief and angst for prospective students. You sit down to finalize and submit applications you’ve been pouring months of your time into. (Of course, then comes a period of time that’s even more stressful: waiting for the admission committee’s decision!)
Based on my experience reviewing thousands of graduate school applications over three decades, here are a few tips to help you stand out as an applicant:
- Relax. The grad school application process is a major learning experience, and applicants often learn as they go. Staying positive and calm will allow you to be reflective and thoughtful as you fill out your applications. Conversely, worrying and obsessing does not help. In fact, it will likely hinder your ability to think clearly and focus on preparing the best application possible.
- Be yourself. No one is perfect, and applicants who try to make themselves look perfect raise suspicion. Admission committees can tell when you’re embellishing your application or making excuses for weaker areas. Presenting yourself in a genuine and honest way is very important. We all have encountered applicants who we initially perceive to be fake or pretending in some way. And my usual response to these individuals it was not positive. As the saying goes: “Be yourself—everyone else is already taken.”
- Ask questions that show you did your research. It is very disheartening for any admission staff (graduate and undergrad alike) when applicants ask questions for which answers have been repeatedly provided on the school website or in printed materials. Two of the questions I was often asked—and which elicited a very negative reaction from me—are, “What are your application deadlines?” or “Do you offer financial aid.” Questions like these demonstrate either a lack of real interest, a lack of initiative in doing some (very easy) research, or both. If and when you interact with graduate admission counselors, ask thoughtful questions that show you did your homework. (A school’s current events page is a great place to look for question fodder.) Show you took time to thoroughly investigate the program and institution to which you are applying.
- Give yourself enough time. At a minimum, take a few months to gather and compile all of the required materials. Then check and recheck to make sure all documents are in order. Do not wait until the last second before pushing the “submit” button. Believe me, admission personnel can tell. How? Because often there are mistakes, missing information, and/or essays that were obviously written for another program. All distinct checkmarks in the “do not admit” column.
- Follow directions. Not doing so raises major questions about how a candidate might adhere to policies and procedures once admitted and enrolled. If there is a word limit for essay questions, follow it. If you are asked for two letters of recommendation, do not send more. If you are specifically told not to follow up via e-mail or phone, don't. As one admission director once said to me, "Following directions shows respect, and in doing so you'll earn some in return."
- Be professional. Maintaining a professional demeanor in all circumstances is a sign of maturity. To be perfectly honest: graduate school is a big deal and can be stressful, and if you're someone who easily loses their cool, then you're likely not ready for the challenge. You should be confident and self-assured, but not to the point of being perceived as overly aggressive, abrasive, or demanding. If something goes wrong in your application process (and little slip-ups happen all the time), keep your cool. This makes a major positive impression.
- Focus on content and presentation. A candidate might have the greatest standardized test scores, a superb undergrad GPA, and impressive letters of recommendation. But if the application contains obvious misspellings or grammatical errors, it's going to be a problem. Rightly or wrongly, graduate admission committees will assume the applicant was not entirely serious about his or her application—or graduate school intentions.
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