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5 Times I Was Really Wrong During My College Search

No two students have the same admission experience, but you should at least be aware of these common college search mistakes that could happen to you!

When I was searching for and applying to colleges, there were a lot of things I thought I knew. Things about financial aid, campus visits, grades, competitive schools, and so much more. Long story short, I was super wrong about all of these things. Looking back now, it definitely seems like I knew absolutely nothing about the process of applying to college. But it turns out there are things a lot of other high school students get wrong too. So don’t let them happen to you! Here are the top five assumptions I was wrong about in my college search and why.

1. If a college is known for terrible financial aid, I’m not going there

Despite what online college forums and friends said about this particular college being notorious for their financial aid (both need- and merit-based packages), College X ended up giving me a full merit-based package for all four years. A friend of mine also received a similar package from the school. The point is, you really don’t know what will happen with a school's financial aid package until you apply! Find colleges that fit you first, then apply, file your financial aid papers (on time!), and wait for the college to send you its decisions. You never know how much aid you’ll get—and you won’t find out until you’ve gotten your admission decision and financial aid award letter.

Related: List: Colleges That Meet the Financial Needs of Students

2. I don’t need to visit; I’ll just go after I receive my acceptance

I only visited two of my prospective colleges—even though I applied to 13 different schools. Learn from me: if you have any chance at all to visit the colleges you’d like to attend, definitely go. You have very little time to visit the colleges you’ve been accepted to if you’re waiting to hear back from schools on March 31 and need to hand in your final college decision by May 1. It might be hard to get there, but if you’re stuck between schools, you’ll find yourself even more stressed and overwhelmed when it comes to actually picking a school if you’ve never visited it. Start visiting as early as possible. If you’re thinking of applying to a lot of schools but know the ones you’re definitely applying to, visit those before applying. Then you can assess later the ones you still need to visit if you definitively decide to apply.

3. I need a top SAT score, perfect grades, and a million extracurriculars to get into the Ivy League

While I’m sure having perfect SAT scores, perfect grades, and a few different extracurriculars wouldn’t hurt you when it comes to getting into the Ivy League, you shouldn’t stress yourself out when it comes to this. Work hard to get good grades, and participate in extracurriculars you enjoy. Study for the SAT and retake it (once—two times tops!) if you’re not happy with your score. Remember, there is no formula for getting into Ivy League schools! If you feel you belong at one of those eight colleges or universities, you have nothing to lose by trying. Don’t count yourself out if you don’t fit the stereotypical mold of what an Ivy League kid is supposed to be. Just be yourself and work hard!

Related: How to Build the Perfect College Application

4. If a school is my top college choice, I’ll definitely go if I get in

Some people stick with their top college choice—but others don’t. It could be that you got a better financial offer elsewhere, or maybe you just reconsidered. A lot of students get ideas in their head regarding what their top schools are like, only to later find out the school isn’t quite what they wanted. Accepting that something may be better for you instead of sticking with your first instinct school. Whatever the case may be, keep your options, mind, and heart open, because you might not end up going where you once thought you would—and that’s okay. The most important thing in the college search and decision process is to find what school is best for you, your dreams, and your goals, and whether that’s your first choice or your fourth, no one else can tell you what the right decision is.

5. I can learn all I need to know about getting into college online

Yeah, I thought this too. Unfortunately, the college admission process is different for every school. I thought I could find out the likelihood that I would be accepted to a specific college from online forums and articles. And though gauging your chances of acceptance is part of deciding whether a college is one of your safety, match, or reach options, these online forums did not accurately predict my trajectory for success or failure. My advice: avoid reading forums with people asking about their likelihood of getting into a certain college. These can set you up for a false outcome.

The opinions of random people on the Internet will not determine your college admission decision, so do not let them determine whether or not you apply somewhere or even how you approach applying there. If you’d like to know more about the college admission process or your likelihood of getting in, contact the college directly, scope out its admission statistics online, and then just apply to it if it’s a good fit for you. Another great resource would be to speak to current students directly; you might be able to talk to alumni from your high school or connect with students on a campus visit.

Related: College Search Resources Students Need to Know About

Get it right

When you’re applying to college, so many ideas fly around your brain at once: Where should I go? Should I leave the state? How far should I go? Can I pay for college? Will I even get in? At times, these big questions are enough to make you want to put down your computer and college brochures and replace them with less overwhelming things like hot cocoa and a Snuggie. Unfortunately, these tough questions will probably never go away; they are simply part of the college search and application process. But if you think about it, the challenging nature of this process is good, because college is a big decision and you should be thinking hard about it! Even though I wish I hadn't been wrong about these things during my college application process, hopefully, they will help you get it right.

Make sure you have the right ideas about the college search process with more advice in our College Admission section.

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About Mariela Pichardo

Mariela Pichardo is a 17-year-old high school senior from Yonkers, New York, but is currently based in Middletown, New York. She has an affinity for old films, female impersonation, and classic literature. She intends to study English and Spanish in the fall of 2016 in the Big Apple.

 

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