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How to Help Your Teen Embrace the New School Year

Back-to-school season may be your favorite time of year as a parent. If your student disagrees, help them develop a more positive mindset with this advice.

As summer vacation draws to a close, many parents face the challenge of helping their teens transition from relaxed days off to the structured routine of a new school year. This shift can be particularly difficult for students who are reluctant to let go of the freedom and fun that summer offers. However, with a few thoughtful strategies, you can help your student get into the back-to-school mindset and ensure a smooth and positive start to the academic year.

Acknowledge their feelings

Before anything else, start by validating your teen's feelings. Vocally acknowledge to them that it's normal to feel sad or anxious about the end of summer and unsure about the new school year ahead. Share your own experiences with transition and how you dealt with them. This will help your teen feel understood and less alone in their emotions.

If your teen is particularly anxious about returning to school, address their concerns directly and offer reassurance. Talk about specific worries they might have, such as social dynamics, academic pressure, or changes to their schedule. If necessary, seek additional support from their school counselor or a mental health professional.

Gradually reconnect with school routines

Both you and your student can ease into the school year by gradually reintroducing balanced routines. A week or two before school starts (or now if it already has), they should adjust their sleep schedules, mealtimes, and daily activities to mirror the school day. This gradual shift can help your teen acclimate to upcoming changes without feeling overwhelmed and feel more refreshed and prepared on the first day of school.

Related: Top 5 Back-to-School Tips for Every High School Student

Create a positive mindset and environment

When they’re only focusing on the bad, encourage your teen to also see the positive aspects about returning to school. Remind them of the friends they’ll see again, the extracurricular activities they enjoy, and all the opportunities for growth and learning. Highlighting the exciting aspects can help shift their mindset from dread to anticipation. You can also help them set up a dedicated homework and study area at home. A comfortable, organized, and safe space can make homework feel less like a chore and more like a part of their daily routine in an environment they enjoy.

Incorporate learning into daily life

Engage in fun, educational activities with your teen that stimulate curiosity and learning. Going on trips to museums, reading a book together, or even cooking can provide valuable learning (and bonding) experiences. You should especially encourage daily reading; it can be great as quiet time before bed or a relaxing activity during the day to help with your student’s learning and relaxation. Help them choose books that really interest them to make reading more enjoyable.

Set goals and expectations

Now is a great time to work with your teen to help them set realistic academic and personal goals for the upcoming school year. Having clear objectives can give them a sense of purpose and direction—plus a greater sense of accomplishment when they meet them. Discuss expectations regarding homework, extracurricular activities, and time management to ensure they maintain a balanced approach to school life.

Related: How to Master the Art of Setting and Refining Your Goals

Encourage balance and self-care

Speaking of a balanced life, you can also help your teen find a healthy balance between academics, extracurricular activities, and downtime. A poorly balanced routine can lead to burnout, so encourage self-care practices such as regular exercise, adequate sleep, and mindfulness techniques. A well-balanced routine can enhance their overall well-being and academic performance.

Foster open communication

It’s important to maintain an open line of communication with your student throughout the school year. Make sure they know you are a safe person to share their experiences with, both positive and negative. Be a supportive listener and offer guidance when needed. Regular check-ins can help you stay attuned to their needs and address any issues promptly.

Lead by example

One big thing you can do to solidify all this advice is to demonstrate a positive attitude toward change and transitions. Your teen is likely to mirror your outlook, so model resilience, adaptability, and optimism. Share strategies for managing stress and staying organized that work for you, then allow them to follow the path that works best for them.

Related: 7 Easy Ways to Make Your Semester More Mindful

Transitioning from summer to the school year can be a challenging time for teenagers, but with empathy, support, and proactive strategies, you can help your student navigate this period with confidence. Remember, your support and understanding can make all the difference in helping them embrace the new school year with enthusiasm.

If your student is stressed about the added responsibility of starting the admission process, prepare yourself with Our Best Advice for Parents Helping Students Plan for College.

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About Suzanne Shaffer

Suzanne Shaffer

Suzanne Shaffer counsels students and families about college preparation through her blog, Parenting for College. Her advice has been featured online in the Huffington Post, Yahoo! Finance, U.S. News & World Report Education, Smart College Visit, and more. She is also a freelance writer featured on CollegiateParent, UniversityParent, TeenLife Media, and Road2College. In the past, she has written for Zinch/Chegg, Classes & Careers, Winterline Study Abroad, and GalTime online magazine.

Suzanne's advice has also been featured on podcasts like Prepped and Polished, How to Pay for College HQ, The College Bound Chronicles, and The College Checklist. Her articles have been featured in print publications created by UniversityParent, CollegiateParent, and TeenLife Media as well as in the book College Bound and Gagged: How to Help Your Kid Get into a Great College Without Losing Your Savings, Your Relationship, or Your Mind by Nancy Berk.

 

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